On this episode, I talk with Shan Boodram about all things dating and relationships, from attraction and accepting your desires, to attachment styles, to dating mistakes.
We talk about:
- Shan’s new book “The Game of Desire”
- How what you wear can affect yourself and others
- Making sex education more accessible
- Accepting your desires without shame
- Things are not good or bad - it’s how you interact with them in your life
- What attraction is - not just physical, it’s the power to draw people in
- Why getting to know yourself is so important
- Keeping up the attraction in long term relationships
- Turn-on triggers
- Apology languages
- Attachment styles - anxious, secure, avoidant, fearful avoidant
- Why it’s great news to realize you’re the problem
- 1 + 1 = 3 in a relationship (each person’s relationship with his/herself and the relationship they have together)
- Biggest dating mistakes
- Being a driver, not a passenger, in your dating life
- The importance of body language
- First impressions aren’t everything, the long game is most important
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On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/
On her Blog: https://www.shanboodram.com/
On her Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/shannontboodram
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